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MAJOR RANT!
Jan. 7th, 2005 03:23 pmDead beat dads!
Tom now owes Ian $9,970.00 in back child support, do you think Ian will ever see it? At least he was sending 22.00 but it costs me 10.00 to convert and deposit it so we were left with little. Now in the last 3 months he has sent nothing. Ok so it's just money, but we have called him a few times since moving here, he has never made an attempt to call ian, he has emailed him maybe 15 times in 2 years and they were like 3 sentence emails. Last time we called him he told Ian he was getting married, Ian wanted so bad to go back for the wedding (that was last may I think) Since that time we don't know if he got married or anything. I do know that for the last 4 years he was living with his girlfriends parents and he doesn't have a job. We don't talk about this much, but Ian is starting to figure it out on his own. It completely sucks, you see Tom graduated Salutatorian of his college class (The student with the second highest academic rank in a class who delivers the salutatory at graduation exercises). He's no dummy and should be working no problem, but he hasn't held a job or the desire to have a decent job since we separated. Drugs and Alcohol are his life and I think it's time we looked into Paul adopting Ian. Anyway I'll wait to hear about our visa first, last time I talked with DIMA they said I should hear by the end of January.
Tom now owes Ian $9,970.00 in back child support, do you think Ian will ever see it? At least he was sending 22.00 but it costs me 10.00 to convert and deposit it so we were left with little. Now in the last 3 months he has sent nothing. Ok so it's just money, but we have called him a few times since moving here, he has never made an attempt to call ian, he has emailed him maybe 15 times in 2 years and they were like 3 sentence emails. Last time we called him he told Ian he was getting married, Ian wanted so bad to go back for the wedding (that was last may I think) Since that time we don't know if he got married or anything. I do know that for the last 4 years he was living with his girlfriends parents and he doesn't have a job. We don't talk about this much, but Ian is starting to figure it out on his own. It completely sucks, you see Tom graduated Salutatorian of his college class (The student with the second highest academic rank in a class who delivers the salutatory at graduation exercises). He's no dummy and should be working no problem, but he hasn't held a job or the desire to have a decent job since we separated. Drugs and Alcohol are his life and I think it's time we looked into Paul adopting Ian. Anyway I'll wait to hear about our visa first, last time I talked with DIMA they said I should hear by the end of January.
